How Would You Know?

SIGNS AND INDICATORS OF SEXUAL ABUSE

This is the second post in a series on child sexual abuse.  Be sure to read the first: What is Child Sexual Abuse and Who are the Perpetrators.

HOW WOULD YOU KNOW …

If your child has been or is being sexually abused?  Do you know the signs or indicators that may indicate sexual abuse?

While one sign alone may not indicate that your child is being sexually abused, several behavioral and/or physical signs may indicate just that.

Pay attention to the following:

BEHAVIOR INDICATORS

• Sudden changes in personality (irritability, depression, withdrawal, clinginess)
• Inappropriate sex play or knowledge for their developmental stage
• Regressive behaviors – bedwetting, baby talk
• Loss of interest in activities previously enjoyed
• Sudden change in school performance
• Suicidal behavior
• Sudden development of fears

PHYSICAL INDICATORS

• Torn, stained bloddy underclothing
• Bleeding or discharge from the genitals
• Venereal disease or pregnancy
• Difficulty sitting or walking
• Frequent yeast or urinary infections

Many children are afraid to tell that they are being sexually abused or do not know how to tell.  They may make vague statements or drop hints.  This may be their way of disclosing the abuse.

SOME TYPICAL STATEMENTS OF DISCLOSURE

• He hurts me.
• Uncle “so and so” does things to me that I don’t like.
• I’m afraid to go home.

Read more about Child Sexual Abuse

• Sexual Abuse of Children
• What is Child Sexual Abuse and Who are the Perpetrators?
• What You Need to Know About Sibling Sexual Abuse
• Incest:  Some Questions and Answers
• Consequences of Child Abuse and Neglect
• 10 Reasons Children May Not Disclose
• Child Abuse and Adolescent Binge Drinking
• Effects of Child Sexual Abuse